Bride's Quesiongs Before the Marriage

Women as brides: Listen to your answers about this wedding. Marriage is many things but it is never a cure.

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Every bride should ask herself the following questions and listen hard to her own answers.

Why are you getting married?
Marriage can appear to be a cure for loneliness. If you are marrying as an effort to counteract loneliness, however, you need to get comfortable with yourself first. Marriage has never been a cure for loneliness.

Is your biological clock running out?
A fear that time is running out for your biological clock sounds logical, but it is not a good reason for marriage.

Is this your last chance?
If you are secretly afraid that no one else will ever want or ask or agree to marry you again, build up your self-confidence first. It is never your last chance and that is no reason for marriage.

How long has he lived alone without a woman to cook, clean, and pick up after him?
If the answer is never, watch out. You may become the woman who is expected to cater to him. You may be cooking, cleaning, and generally being mommy or the maid!

How does his abode look?
If it is a total disaster, will you be able to deal with this messy man? You may spend your life cleaning up after him. On the other hand, if it is immaculate, can you handle this? Yo are probably dealing with a perfectionist. Will you be able to please this perfectionist?

Are you listening?
Listen to your answers! It is never too late to call off or postpone a wedding.

Yes, it will be embarrassing.

Yes, it will be a lot of trouble to return the wedding presents, explain this to Aunt Maude and Grandma Alice.

Yes, there are your bridesmaids to consider.

Yes, it is certainly much easier to explain and be embarrassed now than it is to be divorced later!

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