Men and Sex for Women: The sexual differences are often hard on relationships. Although the spread is narrowing, there are some basic sexual differences with men and women that make it very hard for women to understand that fantasy, masturbation, and sexual attitudes are three sexual differences between males and females. |
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By DH Owens |
Sexual differences among men and women abound. There are some universal truths about men and sex that women often misunderstand. Fantasy and different attitudes about sex are two sexual differences between genders. Another sexual inconsistency: Men can divorce sex and love and have sex for the sake of sex alone; women can rarely divorce sex and love. More information about women and issues of a woman:
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Although the spread is narrowing, there are some basic sexual differences with men and women that make it very hard for women to understand men and sex and vice versa. Bearing in mind there is always that scope for individual variety, here are some almost universal truths about men that women most often fail to understand:
Most men have times when they just want sex for the physical sake of sex itself without the entanglement of a relationship. Sometimes a man just wants a woman's body. She can be asleep or drunk or even watching television; he doesn't even care. There was an expression during World War II that explains this thought process: "Throw a flag over her face and do it for Old Glory!" Women often wonder, "Why would a man pay for sex when it is easily obtained for free in our society?" The fact is that the man will pay because he is only interested in "getting in and getting out," quickly, and without any other involvement. This way of thinking is practically incomprehensible to a woman. But even more incomprehensible to a woman is that a man can have sex with a woman he does not love at noon and then expect sex from a woman he does love in the same afternoon. Women can not understand this total separation and then total merger of sex and love. There is another reason men can divorce sex and love. Males reach the peak of their sexual energy in their teens. This means males seek sex long before they are mature enough for any enduring intimacy or relationship to form. Thereafter, for many years, or at least until a man's sexual vigor wanes with age, this high sexual energy threatens to disrupt any relationship that does form. |
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